Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas

Christmas Eve

My cousin Martin, whom I haven't seen in 20 years,
came to stay with us for a couple of weeks during the holidays.
It was so much fun getting to know him and taking him sight-seeing
around southern Cal. This was too beautiful a day to not be
outside so we opted for a beach tour of Santa Barbara.



Dinner at the Pereyras (my other cousins) was excellent!


Christmas Day

The stockings were hung by the chimney with care

Pancakes and eggs for breakfast - yuuuuummm

Drinking out of the mugs from our holiday china set
(thanks Lynn!)

Dad is usually the one who plays Santa Claus and hands
out the presents. His jolly personality makes him the
perfect candidate for the job. We love our Santa!

What family gathering would be complete without
a little Bailey's to warm the insides? Served chilled
over ice, mixed with a nice cup of hot coffee, or my personal
favorite - mint flavored Baileys over hot chocolate - it
makes for a wonderful addition to any occasion.
SO good!

Family time, fun time.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

In Memoriam


Two weeks before Christmas, my dad's older (and only) brother Bob found out that he had Pancreatic Cancer. It progressed much quicker than anyone expected and sadly, we lost him just before Christmas. We have all been in such a state of shock, though we have ultimately been grateful for his quick release from suffering.

We didn't have the privilege of living close by to Bob and his family, but there are two recent memories that I am most thankful for. One is the family reunion we had for the Celebration of Life in honor of my grandparents after they passed away in 2005. It was rare to have us all together like that, and it was a beautiful day of sharing. The other memory is that of our wedding, which Bob and Laura came to share with us. It meant so much to have them there and it made our day that much more special.

My uncle was a good man. As a father he raised four wonderful children who all now have families of their own. As a son he cared for his parents, and was there with them every day toward the end of their lives, when they needed him most. As a citizen he served our country in the Vietnam War. As a college professor he touched the lives of countless students, and as a human being he led a life well lived.

We will miss you dearly Bob, and look forward to someday seeing you again in the eternal life. Until then, you remain with us in memory and in spirit. May you rest in peace and as Andy so perfectly put it, "may the bird watching be better on the other side."

Monday, December 20, 2010

Winter Fun

Mom's birthday dinner at Cheesecake Factory

Stacey's Birthday - the night the "spinning Kolbe"
was invented. Holy moly, was that hilarious.

Cookies I made for the student helpers in our office,
since they are awesome!

Dad performing with the St. Julie's choir in their
Christmas program. They did a wonderful job!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thanksgiving

Our first Thanksgiving together in California! It was small but cozy and we had plenty of delicious food!

The boys started off the day with a little friendly
competition in Wii Tennis

Mmmmm. Sweet potatoes boiling.......

Dog chillin' (looking handsome in his sweater :-) )......

Fall flowers and decor adorning the house......

Thankful for family, good food and good times

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Blessings

Some of you may know that I am a firm believer in storytelling. I believe that God gives us good stories in our lives so that we can share them, so that they might serve as testaments of His love and presence in the big and small moments of our lives. With that said, and with Thanksgiving right around the corner, I thought I'd share our most recent story about what we are most grateful for. It is a good one indeed!

When Neal was told that his company wanted him in the L.A. office by Labor Day, we put our house on the market almost immediately. May 1st was the official day the "For Sale" sign went in the front yard. During the first two months we had some activity but nothing that seemed very promising. In July, it seemed like the market virtually froze, and we had zero activity on our house for weeks. As our move date continued to approach we considered all of our options, the best of which was to sell our house and make a clean break.

As we entered mid August, we still weren't getting any prospects (though I had even put a picture of St. Joseph inconspicuously on our flier) and on top of that I still hadn't found a job in California, though I had flown out twice for interviews. With the move now being just several weeks away, we didn't know what else to do, except the one thing that is often the hardest - letting go and letting God.

We decided to focus our prayer and say a 9-Day novena (there is a beautiful one dedicated to St. Therese of Lisieux, the "Little Flower of Jesus"). Prayer is a funny thing in that the longer we do it, the more at peace we feel about everything in life, especially when the prayers are truly heartfelt. As we continued to pray each day we continued to feel more at peace, not knowing how it would work out but somehow feeling that it would.

The week after we finished our novena, we suddenly had four house showings after six weeks of no activity. We were thrilled, and waited patiently and see how things progressed.

That same week, I received a call from a school that I had applied to and interviewed with, and found out that I got the job. I would be working in the Development office at Thomas Aquinas College in Santa Paula. Words can't describe how happy I was to receive this news and how incredibly blessed I felt not only to have found a good job in a struggling economy, but at a Catholic college none-the-less. It was solely by the grace of God.

As we packed up our house and headed west, we still hadn't sold our home but had one interested buyer - one of the four who came to look at our house that week after our novena. After spending a week in California Neal had to fly back to Houston for three weeks to help train the person who took his place. During that time, our one interested buyer came to look at the house several more times, and two days before Neal moved out for good, we got the offer. After one month of escrow, we officially closed the deal on October 22nd.

We have often found in life that putting things in God's hands generally works out far better than putting them in our own, and this experience reminded us of that. We are very grateful for what we've been given and will continue to ask for the Lord's guidance as we build our new life here.

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Fall Fest 2010

Fall is in the air

Every year a local farm puts on a Harvest Festival, complete with
hay ride, corn maze, pumpkin patch and even pig races. We
took advantage of the reprieve from the rain, and spent the
day outside.

Hanging Gourds






Monday, October 11, 2010

Central Coast

Living the SLO Life

Neal's first trip to San Luis Obispo (SLO)! Before all of the fog came along we were lucky enough to squeeze in a beautiful weekend along the Central Coast. The hills were still mostly brown from the summer months, but picturesque none-the-less.

Headed north on the 101, just past Santa Barbara

We took scenic route 1, through Pismo Beach, Lompoc
and other small towns.

The central coast is all about the vineyards - to look at,
to drive through, and the fruits of which to enjoy. We,
therefore, had to partake in a little wine tasting excursion.
Choosing from the dozens of wineries was difficult but we
lucked out with a good one - Talley Vineyards.

The tasting room was phenomenal, with views of their
rolling hills. The wine connaisseur gave us some delicious
samples and then took us on a private tour of the vineyard.



Pinot Noir

The Oak barrel room where the wine is kept until ready
to be bottled


Later in the afternoon we drove to Morro Bay along the coast.


Returning to SLO we walked the town and ended up back
at our weekend home - The Apple Farm - for dinner. Old
Victorian style buildings, homey gift shop filled with fall
and Christmas decor (and even a giant checker board, which
we took advantage of), and farm-style recipes that grandma
might have made in the restaurant....I loved this place!

The next day we made our way further up the coast to
San Simeon and the famous Hearst Castle.

William Hearst, though he may have been a bit of a
controversial figure, did build an amazing palace on an
impossible hill. The design of and views from the property
are so impressive.








On our way back from the Castle we drove through the
small town of Cambria and popped into a local fall festival.
We then drove another route to SLO that took us through
some more wineries.



We found what looked like another good winery to stop at
and enjoyed another brief wine tasting. "Castoro" means
beaver in Italian, hence the "Dam Fine Wine."


Fall at the vineyard


Back to the Apple Farm



As the last stop on our trip we walked through the small
town of Solvang. Located in the Santa Ynez Valley
(another popular wine tasting region), this Danish village
is charming as can be.


Taking the windy but scenic highway 150 back towards
home, we had great views of Lake Casitas.

Ojai Valley